Confessions Of The WeddingDIVA

The RealityCHECK Series: How Much Wedding You Can Get For $6000

2011-04-01T18:51:00.001-05:00

My RealityCHECK Series continues this week using the lovely total of $6000. $6k to get married? Yes. Follow along............. Core Factor: When your dollars are short, tight, meager, modest - you have to be extremely realistic about what's doable...and what isn't. Sure, it might be nice to invite everyone you know to celebrate your marriage, but in reality - it's not possible. I don't

The RealityCHECK Series: How Much Wedding You Can Get For...$1000

2011-03-23T09:47:00.002-05:00

I decided to start off the series with the very round figure of $1000. And yes - you can get married for 1k..more or less. Seriously. Here's how: THE CEREMONY: You'll go to the courthouse, Justice Of The Peace or the pastor's study and say "I DO" The cost: Depends on what the current rate is in your region for a civil wedding ceremony or the "love offering" your pastor may ask for. This

The RealityCHECK Series: How Much Wedding Can You Get For $$$$?

2011-03-23T07:32:00.001-05:00

This blog topic has been a LONG time coming. And the following dialogue is why: Me: "So....what have you and your fiance' discussed as far as wedding budgets/parameters/spending is concerned?" Prospective Client: "Um...we're looking at $10,000" Me: "And that's for how many guests and it will include?" Prospective Client: "oh, 300 guests. And we'd like to have sit-down dinner, open bar

The Morning After.............

2011-02-15T08:17:00.001-05:00

There's got to be a morning after If we can hold on through the night We have a chance to find the sunshine Let's keep on looking for the light... Singer Maureen McGovern released "The Morning After" in 1973 and it's always been one of my favorites {guess that tells you how old I am, right?}. And after all of the buzz and hoopla that has commonly become known as Valentine's Day, I thought the

Requiem For A Wedding - The Real Housewives Of Atlanta: Planning

2011-02-01T11:57:00.001-05:00

First up in my "composition": THE PLANNING. Or lack thereof. Let's have some "real talk" - shall we? I am a wedding planner. A professional one who prides herself on the skill set I possess. One said "skill" is the fine art of actually pulling together the framework, nuts, bolts and all of the other "pieces" needed to make a wedding celebration gorgeous AND efficiently successful. In

Requiem For A Wedding - Real Houswives Of Atlanta Version

2011-02-01T10:29:00.000-05:00

Ah.....Cynthia & Peter's nuptials. Where do I start? No, seriously - where do I begin? If you follow me on Facebook or Twitter {I sure hope you do!}, then you'll know that I'm a fan of the saga known as The Real Housewives Of Atlanta. The season finale on Sunday evening was the "reveal" of model Cynthia Bailey and her fiance', businessman Peter Thomas' wedding at the Fernbank Museum in the

Being Married....Is A Process

2011-01-25T13:06:00.000-05:00

As a wedding planner, I see couples all of the time who are about to take the proverbial "leap into da' land of matrimony". For some people - it's one of the most serious committments they'll ever make. That's how it should be - saying "I DO' is a big daggone deal and regrettably, a lot of folks don't see it that way. I'm a big fan of "relationship help", since there is no MANUAL that can be

Got ETHICS?

2011-01-20T15:05:00.002-05:00

I'm not even sure how this post will "evolve", so I'm just going to put my "thoughts" out there...... I've been in the wedding planning industry since 1993. That's 18 years worth of blood, sweat and tears that have been devoted to discovering, learning and honing my "craft." And yes - the road has been amazing as well as rough. I came into the business at a time when wedding planners were

Planes, Trains & Automobiles.....

2011-01-20T14:42:00.000-05:00

I readily admit to have racked up some serious airline miles and hotel loyalty points over the years and 2011 will only add to my cache!! I love speaking, I love sharing what I know and I LOVE "vibing" off of an audience - there's nothing like feeling that energy in the air and running with it!! January 30th "Dessert With The DIVA @ The Maryland Bridal Show Historic Savage Mill Manor/Savage, MD

Paying For Your Wedding

2011-01-17T09:52:00.001-05:00

I have a confession to make - I absolutely love the reality tv megaseries known as "The Real Housewives Of Atlanta". It's my guilty pleasure and judging from my social media comrades on Facebook & Twitter, they can't get enough either!! Talk about shiggadashery and shiggity (yes, I have a propensity for making up words - don't judge me!) at it's finest - this show has it in spades. Last

My First Blog Contest

2011-01-12T13:10:00.000-05:00

Getting married and you're in the Baltimore/D.C. area? Here's a way for you to enjoy fabulous food, tour TWO great venues and meet some of the region's top wedding professionals - Putting On The Ritz Caterers is hosting their annual Maryland Bridal Show on Sunday, January 30th at the Great Room At Savage Mill from noon - 3 p.m. And to add a little "sumthin'" extra to the pot, yours truly will

Why I Cost So MUCH - The Remix

2011-01-11T16:55:00.001-05:00

I'm thoroughly pleased with the response and feedback I received on "Why I Cost So MUCH" - my goal in penning that post was to spark dialogue amongst my fellow industry professionals and to get people THINKING!!! After chatting with a few folks online and by the good ole' telly..something else came to mind that made me realize I wasn't finished with this topic - not by a long shot! So, "Why I

I AM????????

2011-01-07T09:59:00.000-05:00

This year - I have decided to go ahead and let my "real voice" speak to all of you. If you've ever met me in person, you'll notice that I am very down-to-earth, I don't do fantasy, I call things the way I see them, I'm quick with a humorous quip and I'm always smiling. That's my authentic self - "straight shot/no chaser" so since the whole idea behind this blog was to allow me the opportunity

Why I Cost So "MUCH"...

2011-01-05T11:05:00.005-05:00

Simple title. Complex issue. It's a question I get asked over and over and over again - my response is generally more internal than external. See, wedding planners are are different cup of chicken soup that other industry providers. The services we provide are on another level and at their core, are the REASON someone's dreams and visions can come to stunningly, logistical life. Notice I did use

Confessions Of The WeddingDIVA: The 30 Day Rule......

2011-01-03T13:34:00.000-05:00

Confessions Of The WeddingDIVA: The 30 Day Rule......: "Happy New Year!!!! Are you one of those lucky people who got engaged over the holiday season? You're not alone - lots of gentlemen got on b..."

The 30 Day Rule......

2011-01-03T12:01:00.011-05:00

Happy New Year!!!! Are you one of those lucky people who got engaged over the holiday season? You're not alone - lots of gentlemen got on bended knee to "pop the question" and many ladies said "yes"!! But before you head out to the store to buy a wedding magazine, flip through websites to pick out a flattering color palette or get on the phone to call potential vendors, I'm going to ask you to

Teaching.....

2010-12-22T09:28:00.004-05:00

is one of the things I most enjoy. With that in mind (and by popular demand!), I'll be offering a "Weekend Of Learning" Seminar Series in February that focus on two core issues which challenge planners and other wedding industry professionals - Fees/Pricing & Contracts.The bottom line is simple - you have to be clearly structured when it comes to what you charge AND you need to be able to get it

It's Been A Long Time.......

2010-12-21T08:32:00.002-05:00

since I last posted to "Confessions" - 4 months to be exact! So much has happened and things have literally been a whirlwind around the offices of TeamDIVA!!!Today marks the Winter Solstice (6:38 p.m. to be exact) and with it, comes the SHORTEST day of the year. After today, we'll watch our nights grows shorter, our days grow longer..which can only mean one thing: Springtime will be right

Upcoming Seminar - Fee Structures For Wedding Planners

2010-08-15T12:47:00.007-05:00

I absolutely, without a doubt, enjoy teaching. It's my way of "paying it forward" and sharing what I know with others. Because this has been such a hectic travel year, I've only been able to offer 1 Power Course..BUT, I have news to share!If the notion of how much to charge for your services as a wedding planner has ever confused, befuddled or stumped you - I've got a workshop for you! "Making

On The Road Again...........

2010-08-15T11:28:00.004-05:00

(at the NACE Experience 2010 Gala in Austin with my dear friend & colleague, Vince Dreffs) (Eventology '10 attendees working on my "FirstImpressions" exercise) (Eventology 10' attendees literally had each other's "backs" during my session!)(doing what I love to do.....) (explaining my theories at Eventology '10)(the amazing ballroom at the Palais Royale in South Bend - site of the Bella

Hello...............GoodMorning!

2010-08-15T11:22:00.003-05:00

is one of my FAVORITE songs at the moment! This slickly produced, bass-intensive collaboration from Diddy/Rick Ross/Nicki Minaj and Dirty Money has the kind of groove which keeps the speakers in my new ride on full blast!!I'm saying "hello AND good morning" to all of you - my loyal followers/readers! I know it's been a minute since we last chatted, but things have been BANANAS in my world! I have

Double Sweetness...

2010-04-29T15:41:00.005-05:00

Recently, I was sent some samples of the most decadently delicious chocolate I've ever had. The Madelaine Chocolate Company reached out for my opinion and thoughts on their product, so here we go :)The company has premiered a new line called "Duets" - wonderful rich chocolate, melded with another flavor to create a sumptuously creamy concoction. These "minis" are perfect as favors for weddings

"I DO Brunch" Recap - The Design Teams

2010-04-26T23:07:00.008-05:00

(stationery by Just Ink On Paper/escort cards by Write Style Invitations) ("corset" cake by SugarBakers) ("corset" centerpiece by Intrigue Designs) ("birdcage" design by Bella Fiori Couture) ("topiary" wedding cake by Sweet - A Bakery & Cafe)This year's Brunch had a twofold thematic - design and culinary. For some reason, the notion of a classically elegant English Garden resonated deeply within

Indianapolis and Eventology

2010-04-26T16:23:00.015-05:00

The earlier part of last week found me in the Circle City - Indianapolis, gearing up for an intense two days with fellow industry professionals at Eventology 10. This information-packed conference, hosted by the fabulous Katasha Butler of KSherrie +Company, was an excellent chance for wedding creatives to get together and immerse ourselves in the "science" of the wedding business.I was honored

"I DO Brunch" Recap - Our Vendor Partners

2010-04-24T09:05:00.004-05:00

I've decided to break up the "I DO Brunch" into separate "recaps" - there was so much going on and so many amazing participants, one post simply will not do! So to start it off - allow me to introduce you to our Vendor Partners.....The Brunch is a pure vehicle for professional enjoyment - as planners, we just don't get to enjoy the "fruits of our labor" because we are too busy managing the

Whirlwind...

2010-04-24T08:36:00.003-05:00

is an apt title for the past week and a half! Between the "I DO Brunch" and Eventology 10, to say that things have been waaaay interesting in Casa DIVA is an understatement!!This year's "I DO Brunch" was a smashing success..judging from all of the positive feedback and commentary we've received from our attendees and vendor partners. For me, it was the culmination of a few months of meetings,

Nothing like a giveaway....

2010-03-26T10:42:00.002-05:00

In honor of their 500th fan on Facebook, my wonderful colleague, Marni Gold at Creative Custom Cardboxes is sponsoring a fab contest - details are here.Marni is the driving force behind this very unique product which combines pretty and practical into one great package! Finding a creative way to store your gift and money envelopes can be difficult, but Creative Custom Cardboxes has come up with a

In 3.....2....1....

2010-03-26T10:31:00.003-05:00

Due to an overwhelming response - registration for my annual "I DO BRUNCH" will close at 6 p.m. (eastern) today. Our original date was supposed to be April 10th - but planners from all over the United States have decided that the Brunch is THE place to be, so they've snatched up tickets left and right!!It's all good - I created the Brunch to be a wonderful conduit of interaction, networking,

"I DO Brunch" Update

2010-03-12T09:24:00.002-05:00

The response to this year's "I DO Brunch" has been positively overwhelming! I'm so excited for the peer-to-peer networking, the cameraderie, the amazing decor, the decadently delicious cuisine, the SWAG......everything is going to be simply fabulous!Our guests are coming to celebrate our industry and the beginning of spring - by trains, planes and automobiles, over 100 wedding planning

Aisle Style 2010

2010-03-02T12:52:00.001-05:00

Getting married in Charm City? Here's your perfect chance to glide down the aisle in style! Join Baltimore Magazine for their annual "Aisle Style" event on Sunday, March 7th at the Hilton Baltimore Hotel.If you're reading this blog post - lucky you! That makes you eligible for the DIVADiscount - go to the event website, purchase one ticket, get the ...second one free! Who says I don't know

The Art Of Boudoir.....

2010-02-25T10:23:00.009-05:00

I am a total fan of boudoir photography. Why? Because at it's heart and core, it's about the "femininity" of it all. Done well and directed by a skilled photographer, this intimate "peek" can be an amazing testimony to all things womanly. Many of my clients have done this as a gift for their fiance's and new husbands - much to their beloved's delight :) For the women, it's a chance to reveal

Internships

2010-02-15T07:54:00.004-05:00

I receive many, many inquiries about participation in my Internship Program that's offered each season. For me, it has been a way to give serious insight and introspect into my world so that prospective and new planners will thoroughly understand that the universe I inhabit isn't glamorous, but highly demanding and TOUGH!. Over the years, I've had the opportunity to work with, guide and mentor

The "I DO Brunch" For Wedding Planners

2010-02-14T10:31:00.007-05:00

I'm throwing a little "shindig" and if you're a wedding planner or coordinator, new to the game or seasoned....you're invited!My annual "I DO Brunch" is being held on Saturday, April 17th at the Gathering Place in Clarksville, Maryland. This is my way of getting a bunch of planners together so that we can do things which NEVER happen when we're working - namely:1) The opportunity to actually

True Love......

2010-02-14T10:14:00.005-05:00

It's been exactly 2 months since I've blogged - for which I sheepishly ask for your apologies. There's been a TON going on over here at Premiere Event Management with me and TeamDIVA literally in a whirlwind of activity...details which we'll share with you over the next few weeks (yes - it's that MUCH!).Today is Valentine's Day - and for many, that means a maddening rush to find the perfect card,

Drum Roll....Please!

2009-12-14T23:44:00.002-05:00

I'm happy to announce that my latest episode of "Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?" entitled "Bride vs. Groom" will air this coming Saturday, December 19th at 9 p.m. eastern on the Style Network. While I can't divulge anything regarding the show, I encourage all of you to tune in......it's definitely a wee bit "different" than what I normally dish out, but in true DIVA style - I make it do what it do!

The Wedding Party

2009-11-09T19:51:00.006-05:00

Over the past 17 years, I've seen wedding parties as small as zero and as large as 60 (yes....you read correctly - I didn't stutter!). The honor of being asked to participate as an attendant in someone's nuptials is a big deal and one that shouldn't be taken lightly. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people who really don't "get" what an awesome responsibility this is, both emotionally and

Celebration...not obligation

2009-10-28T12:19:00.002-05:00

That's what your wedding is about. You and your beloved should be celebrating this milestone moment with those people in your life who mean the most. Simply put - a wedding is about "celebration - not obligation".As a planner, I hear it all of the time. Guest lists that are crazy out of control because couples feel as if they MUST invite everyone in the known galaxy....the 4th cousin twice

Timeless.....

2009-10-26T16:35:00.005-05:00

is the only word I can use to describe Ivanka Trump's wedding gown. A custom Vera Wang design, it's fashioned after the one Grace Kelly wore back in 1956 when she wed Prince Ranier of Monaco. With the beautiful jewels adorning her ears and wrist, that simply stunning bouquet AND the love of her life by her side....what more could a bride want?This is the look I think of when brides tell me they

Survey Says!!!

2009-10-15T15:36:00.002-05:00

I couldn't resist that line from one of my absolutely favorite game shows, Family Feud :)However in this case, there's actually a survey being conducted and the researches from the University of Virginia need your help. Here are the details - if it sounds like something you'd like to participate in, contact the doctoral candidate, Christina Reitz-Krueger, directly.Engaged volunteers needed!I am

DIVAStyle: Real Weddings

2009-10-08T13:19:00.003-05:00

Bridgette & JoeSeptember 18, 2009Yes - wedding planners (and their teams) get married too. When my assistant Bridgette asked me if I would do the honors of coordinating all of the festivities on the day of her wedding - I was tickled pink. And I said "yes"!! Along with TeamDIVA members Stephanie, Maia, Denise and Lisa, we set out to make sure Bridgette and her new husband had the best night ever.

Coming To The Big Apple!!

2009-10-08T09:39:00.004-05:00

For all of my New Yorkers, Jersey peeps and Connecticut colleagues - I'm coming your way on October 19-20th! I am so honored to be asked to deliver one of the keynote presentations at the Maximize Your Brand Wedding Symposium hosted by Dawn Easter Events and Something Blue NY. Dawn & Karina have really pulled together a fab event - bringing industry powerhouses to New York for 2 days of intense

DIVAStyle: Real Weddings

2009-10-03T19:45:00.021-05:00

I have the best clients. Truly. And I'd like you to meet them to see how their special day unfolds. DIVAStyle: Real Weddings is a new feature on Confessions - through my eyes and the lenses of some of the most talented photographers in the area, you'll get an opportunity to catch a glimpse of the brides and grooms TeamDIVA is honored to serve. Angela & TavonSeptember 12, 2009This wonderful

My Next Workshop For Wedding Planners

2009-09-27T17:43:00.003-05:00

If you are passionate about this field we call wedding planning, if you want to learn more about how to craft and manage a successful business, if you want to "up your ante" and really bring the game home - join me and a bunch of other like minded folks on November 14-15th here in Baltimore!!The Power CourseBurkshire Marriott Conference Center Hotel10 W. Burke AvenueTowson, MarylandRegistration

Guess Who's Back????

2009-09-27T11:47:00.003-05:00

Just me :) I've been "away" since May and with the falling of the leaves and the change in season, I've returned to my beloved "Confessions".I've gotten so many inquiries and emails from my readers asking "where are you" and "when are you going to start blogging again?". I thank all of you for keeping in touch with me and I'm going to answer your questions quite simply...I needed to take a break

TeamDIVA

2009-05-25T22:00:00.006-05:00

Just so you know - there's more than one of me in existence. My "clones" come in the form of the fabulous ladies (and gents) of TeamDIVA - these are the folks who help me bring all of the wonderful wedding and other celebrations we produce to life!Over the next few weeks, I'm going to be introducing my associates and assistants to all of you. It's a great chance for you to see the many faces of

"Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?" - Season 9

2009-05-25T21:56:00.002-05:00

I cannot believe that we are showing episodes from Season 9! It seems just like yesterday that I got a call from the folks over at Style Network, saying that they wanted me to join the cast of this fabulous show!! That was season 2 and now look where we are!!!!For all of you who've been asking - your wish is being granted :) My newest episode will air tomorrow night (May 26th) at 8 p.m. EST on

I Have Been Away For A Minute...

2009-05-25T21:53:00.001-05:00

But I'm back now :) It's been so ultra hectic around these parts - and I admit to being a wee bit neglectful to all of my faithful blog readers. Will you accept my most sincerest apologies? However, I've got TONS of great information, insights, photos and a few "surprises" to share with you in the coming days and weeks - I hope you'll stay tuned!!!!

The "I DO Brunch" Part Three - Pen To Paper

2009-04-16T21:08:00.014-05:00

(Diamond Minor Design) (Diamond Minor Design) (Diamond Minor Design)(Momental Designs)(Momental Designs) (Momental Designs)(Momental Designs)(Carla David Design)(Carla David Design)(Carla David Design)I love the written word. There is something magical about gathering your thoughts, then transferring them with the sweep of a pen to paper. Words in all of their finery were truly on display at

The "I DO Brunch" Part Two - It's All About The Linens!

2009-04-10T21:20:00.013-05:00

(Select Event Rentals) (BBJ Linen)(BBJ Linen)(Gala Cloths)(Gala Cloths)(Select Event Rentals) (Select Event Rentals)I admit to being passionately fanatical about linen and tablecoverings - for me, they are one of the important elements to any great tablescape. So for the "I Do Brunch", I partnered with three of the finest companies on a local and nationwide basis to provide the elegant pieces of

The "I DO Brunch" Part One - Flowers In Bloom

2009-04-08T18:25:00.033-05:00

(Flowers By Gina D.)(Flowers By Gina D.) (Flowers By Gina D.) (Flowers By Gina D.)(Richardson's Flowers) (Richardson's Flowers) (Richardson's Flowers) (Wicked Willow) (Wicked Willow) (Wicked Willow) (Wicked Willow)(Crimson & Clover Designs) (Creative Custom Cardboxes) (Crimson & Clover Designs) (Crimson & Clover Designs) (Crimson & Clover Designs)Historic Savage Mill Manor was the perfect

The "I DO Brunch" Recap

2009-04-08T18:19:00.005-05:00

The first ever "I DO Brunch" For Wedding Planners was held this past Saturday, April 4th at the charming Savage Mill Manor in Howard County, Maryland. And judging from the wonderfully positive response I received from my guests - I can say that it was a success!!! Many, many heartfelt thanks go out to the lovely ladies who attended this new venture of mine, I really appreciate your support!I'm

Pro Pics From "Aisle Style"

2009-04-06T09:28:00.007-05:00

Finally - some professional images to share with you from last month's "Aisle Style" bridal event sponsored by Baltimore Magazine! "Glamour - The AfterPARTY" was the design vignette I was tasked with creating, so using the materials on hand at the hotel with a few other little "fripperies" thrown in - my team and I designed a luxurious, comfortable space for the happy couple and their posse to

Another "I DO BRUNCH" Sneak Peek

2009-03-24T11:15:00.005-05:00

I can't help myself - this is so, so pretty, I have to share it!The uber-fabulous Kristy Rice of Momental Designs is graciously sharing her talents with us for the upcoming "I DO Brunch" next Saturday. I gave a design idea to a few collaborating "teams" and the results will be on display at the event. Kristy posted her inspirations to her blog today, and I was so thrilled with the result that I'm

Aisle Style Recap

2009-03-24T10:22:00.023-05:00

(acknowledgement menu - created by Diamond Minor Designs) (pillows with a personal touch of bling - the jeweled pins are out of my collection!)(this hotel pillow is normally burgundy chenille, but with a little bit of fabric - I gave it a new look!)(a sparkling monogrammed pin is a great way to inject a bit of you and your spouse into the surrounding decor!)(A luxurious "throw" to add panache

"I DO Brunch" Sneak Peek!

2009-03-20T22:11:00.004-05:00

As the "I DO Brunch" gets closer - our studio is starting to fill up with all of the trinkets and goodies we've assembled for our very special guests. Vendors on both the local and national level are bestowing the newest, coolest, prettiest, tastiest items in the wedding and special event upon the Brunch so that my colleagues are able to see and experience first hand some of the finest wares

Another Perspective

2009-03-19T19:31:00.002-05:00

As I was perusing over some of the daily blog alerts I receive, there was one in particular that caught my eye. Florida-based photographer Kathryn Brown's latest blog entry was singing the praises of the professional wedding planner and how from her vantage point - on the other side of the lens - she sees the benefit to couples who make that choice.I may be biased, but I couldn't agree more.

Got Power??

2009-03-11T19:03:00.004-05:00

If you are passionate about this field we call wedding planning, if you want to learn more about how to craft and manage a successful business, if you want to "up your ante" and really bring the game home - join me and a bunch of other like minded folks from June 6-7th here in Baltimore!!The Power CourseBurkshire Marriott Conference Center Hotel10 W. Burke AvenueTowson, MarylandRegistration

Chronology Of A Disaster

2009-03-07T10:26:00.003-05:00

I wanted to share this post from my friend and fellow wedding planning colleague, Jeannie Ward of The Wedding Jeannie in Southern California. Normally, I would just provide a link so that you could read it - but I think this particular missive deserves a full blown print out. It's one more example of why wedding planners are NOT a luxury, but a wise and prudent investment into the success of your

Aisle Style

2009-03-04T13:26:00.006-05:00

For those of you who are planning a wedding in the metro area, I invite you to come out on Sunday, March 22nd for Baltimore Magazine's Aisle Style Event. This truly elegant, truly luxurious gathering held at the Hilton Hotel will feature the top vendors and service providers in the greater metro region along with yummy hors d'ouevres, champagne by Moet-Chandon, entertainment, great giveaways and

Because Not Everyone Is A Size 6....

2009-03-02T18:17:00.006-05:00

The truth of the matter is that the average size for American women is now a 14. I know that many of my fuller figured brides lament over the process of finding the gown which will enhance their lush beauty - sadly enough, most bridal shops don't generally carry larger sample sizes, so brides have to "make do" with what is in the store and can only visualize as to how they will look until the

Dancing DIVA

2009-02-25T18:11:00.005-05:00

(photo credit: ballroom-dance-chicago.blogspot.com)I am so honored to announce that I'll be competing for a very pretty trophy this spring in the Alzheimer's Association's annual "Memory Ball" being held here in Baltimore on April 18th. I absolutely LOVE to dance, however, ballroom is a wee bit different than the kind of "shakin' it on the floor" I'm used to :)This is a great challenge for me

Get Married and Celebrity Event Designer Colin Cowie Offer Wedding Tips and Trends to the Budget-Savvy Bride

2009-02-24T06:54:00.002-05:00

(photo credit: Colin Cowie.com)It seems the recession and our nation's subsequent financial "crisis" has definitively woven it's way into the fabric of wedding planning. Quite similar to my post last week about pulling off a wedding during these times, celebrity wedding planner and lifestyle innovator, Colin Cowie , in partnership with Lifestyle Television's Get Married , have come up his 7 top

The "I DO BRUNCH"

2009-02-23T07:51:00.005-05:00

Just a few weeks away and I am so excited about the "I DO BRUNCH" on April 4th, a networking event for my fellow wedding planners and coordinators!! This fabulous affair will offer a unique opportunity for planning professionals to openly discuss the many challenges we face in today's ever changing wedding industry. I have channeled my inner "designing DIVA" and teamed up with some of the most

Red Carpet Glamour

2009-02-19T14:50:00.005-05:00

This gorgeous gown, worn by actress Angela Bassett at the recent 59th annual Berlin Film Festival is a stunning example of how to bring red carpet "wow" to your wedding. From the sumptuous fabric to the sublimely sexy one-shouldered neckline, an outfit like this would be wonderfully flattering for a second trip down the aisle! Complete your look with a sleek chignon, some dazzling sparkle in your

Wedding Vendor Website Survey

2009-02-17T22:15:00.005-05:00

My colleague and friend, Emilie Duncan of Emilie Duncan Event Planning is conducting a great survey...take a look below!*********************************************************I promise, this will only take a minute of your time! If you wouldn’t mind, please click on the link below and answer 9 quick, easy questions about different design aspects of wedding vendor’s websites.Wedding Vendor

L-O-V-E

2009-02-14T08:47:00.003-05:00

There's a song by R & B soul icon Al Green that has the title of this post in it's refrain, "L-O-V-E, love...I'm talkin' 'bout love, ooohh". Now while he sings it way better than I do, the sentiment is worth noting.Today is Valentine's Day and there are plenty of you out there who've spent a minute or two deciding on the "perfect" gift for your special someone. There are also a lot of you still

Weddings - Recession Style

2009-02-12T16:40:00.003-05:00

As a wedding planner for the past 16 years, I've seen so many trends come and go. But one thing remains constant - most brides & grooms want a day that transcends all others, one that totally symbolizes their love and shows it to those around them. Let's face it - weddings are expensive. The national average for a nuptial celebration is $30,000 - which includes expenses for a ceremony and

Cheap Quality Is An Oxymoron

2009-02-11T09:45:00.003-05:00

Those two words simply don't go together - period. When it comes to selecting and working with a professional wedding planner - you want quality, period. Today's post from my friend and colleauge Tracey Kumer-Moore of Your Las Vegas Wedding Concierge pretty much sums up my thoughts on this subject.........

Alisa Benay Couture Bridal

2009-02-11T07:21:00.004-05:00

Alisa Benay is the newest couture bridal designer to hit the American market with her amazing vintage inspired designs. With 15 years experience as a custom gown designer, Alisa launches into the national couture bridal marketplace with a rich understanding of what a bride wants in her dream gown. "I have always had a fascination with historical fashions," says Ms. Benay, "I love the silhouette

Slick & Sleek

2009-02-10T07:31:00.008-05:00

What's black (with some white thrown in) and shiny all over? This cool, sleek PATENT LEATHER table that I designed for the Baltimore Bridal Show over the weekend at the Convention Center!Here's the back story: I was commissioned by the Hyatt Regency Inner Harbor to create a design concept for their display area at the show. They wanted something different, something unique, something that would

Wise Wedding Spending

2009-02-05T11:53:00.003-05:00

In this economy - every where you look, everyone is tightening their proverbial belts. I recently did an interview with BTheSite.com 's Jazzmen Tynes which takes a look at how to have a great shindig - and still live afterwards.I'll be the first one to say - when it comes to measuring your nuptial spending, it's always about priorities and what's most important to YOU in the grand scheme of

It Never Rains In Southern California

2009-01-28T08:17:00.003-05:00

or at least, while I'm here!!! Hello from sunny San Diego - host city of The Special Event Conference and Tradeshow 2009!! I'm on the road this week, attending and participating as a workshop speaker for one of the most amazing and educational forums created for people in the special events industry.TSE is a vast melting pot of ideas, practical management, networking and fun for those of

The "I DO Brunch" For Wedding Planners

2009-01-19T19:43:00.004-05:00

The "I DO BRUNCH" is a networking event for wedding planners and coordinators that will offer an unprecedented chance to discuss in a open environment, the many challenges professional planners face in today's wedding industry. Beautiful decor, lively entertainment and great giveaways have been carefully orchestrated with some of the region's finest companies to make this a one-of-a-kind

FESTIVUS!

2009-01-09T09:43:00.004-05:00

No secret - I am a big time fan of the Baltimore Ravens. And my boys are in the playoffs - we had the "fish fry" in Miami last weekend where we "cooked" and served up the Dolphins on a plate..now we are headed to Nashville to "BBQ" the Tennessee Titans :)My friend and fellow wedding planning colleague, Kathy Strukel of Indiana-based The Perfect Solution, gave my hometown team the proverbial "

The DIVA's DISH

2009-01-08T14:06:00.006-05:00

The first "DISH" of 2009 is something that's near and dear to my heart - saving money! While I love nice things - I'm also frugal, which is one of the reasons my clients love me!BravoBride.com is a totally cool resource that gives former brides (and grooms!) a unique opportunity to sell those wedding items they no longer have any use for AND offers the soon-to-be-wed a great chance to pick up

A Premiere Wedding - Izabella & Dave

2009-01-07T16:57:00.004-05:00

I was honored to act as the wedding coordinator for my assistant, Izabella, as she wed David Downs on a chilly December afternoon. Izabella has been with me for the past three years and is one of the most beautiful people (inside and out!) that I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. If you saw the episode on Style Network's "Married Away" where I was producing a destination wedding in the

Wedding Logo Design Giveaway

2009-01-07T10:11:00.007-05:00

Kendra at Motif Designs is giving one lucky bride (or groom!) a chance to win a custom designed wedding logo for their special day! This is an awesome way to put a very personal stamp on your celebration - and it can be used in so many ways throughout your printed items, GOBO - the possibilities are endless!Visit her blog and fill out the entry form - the deadline is this Friday, January 9th.

Internship Applications Now Available

2009-01-02T10:30:00.009-05:00

(some members of the 2008 Internship Rotation)Premiere Event Management is now accepting applications for our 2009 Internship Program. Additional details about this unique opportunity can be found on our website - the deadline for application submissions is February 1st.Interns within the program have the opportunity to immerse themselves into the business of managing weddings and other

Ladies & Gentlemen - Start Your Engines!

2009-01-02T10:04:00.004-05:00

Happy New Year! Although we are officially "back in the office" on Tuesday, January 6th - I thought I'd stop in and say "Hi!".My team and I are so looking forward to this new year and all of the excitement it promises to bring! There will be a couple of new features here at Confessions Of The WeddingDIVA - and I hope you'll enjoy them. My expertise and repertoire is pretty extensive - so I want

Goodbye.......Hello!

2008-12-31T21:35:00.003-05:00

As 2008 winds down to a close, I want to take this opportunity to thank all of you for visiting me at my place here in the blogosphere. This has become a great outlet for me to share a little more of what I think, envision and query about in regards to weddings, parties and life in general. For those of you who've taken a second out to respond to a post - thank you. To those of you who took a

Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend

2008-12-26T11:28:00.007-05:00

My last post was all about the 72 hours following the big "question"..but I'd be remiss if I didn't ask - "What does your ring look like?" I admit to absolutely LOVING diamonds - in every way. When I got engaged all of those years ago, I had a simple solitaire - round cut, set with traditional 6 prongs. However - should I ever remarry (hey - you never know, it could happen!), I know what I want.

All Shiny & New!!!

2008-12-26T10:44:00.004-05:00

Happy Holidays to everyone!! As we wind down from the glitter and excitement of Christmas and Hanukah, there are many of you who really got something that sparkles as your holiday gift this year!The holiday season is one of the most popular for engagements - although it has not been scientifically proven, my theory is that it might have something to do with the fact that everyone is in a giving

Another "DISH-worthy" Item

2008-12-18T10:46:00.005-05:00

I found out about KLEAN Bath & Body from my media-savvy friend, Peter Shankman, over at Help A Reporter Out.com (affectionately known as HARO) and since I am a nut about fragrance, I had to check it out! I'm so glad I did - it is such a beautiful line of body indulgent pamperings - from sweet sugar scrubs, soothing shea butters and scintillating scents, all eco-friendly, all delicious!!For all of

The DIVA's DISH

2008-12-15T20:41:00.009-05:00

Today's DISH is all about pure, indulgent comfort.I have a small "vice" - I absolutely adore watching television. For me, it's a way to escape the hectic rigors of a very busy existence and just take time to do nothing at all. From political gabfests, to cooking shows, home improvement ideas and old black & white movies on AMC, I love the escapism that the telly provides. To make the picture

Can You Spend One Million Dollars?

2008-12-14T19:35:00.002-05:00

On the latest episode on "Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?", my colleague, James Tramondo of NYC-based DAVI Weddings, is tasked with the planning of a million-dollar shindig for the bride and groom. And I've seen a lot of feedback, with most folks asking "what do you spend 1 millon dollars on?" My answer - anything you want.Let's be honest - everyone's checkbook and credit card lines are decidedly

Talking About Food

2008-11-25T11:49:00.004-05:00

Since we are about to hit one of the most fabulous "eating" days of the year, I'd like to share an interview I gave to renowned chef and author, Maria Liberati for her "What's In Your Fridge" series on her website. As a wedding planner, I've always been intrinsically "entrenched" in the creation of my client's menus because food and beverage are a huge part of the reception planning process. My

Happy Thanksgiving

2008-11-25T10:32:00.002-05:00

Just a short note from all of us here at Premiere Event Management - we wish all of you a happy and blessed Thanksgiving! Our offices will be closed starting today (Tuesday, November 25th) at noon and we'll reopen on Monday, December 1st.Enjoy this time with your family and friends - remember, we all have much to be thankful for!!!

New Episodes Of Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?

2008-11-06T12:26:00.002-05:00

The latest news from the network is that my epsisodes filmed this summer will air this month!So..set your TIVO's and DVR's - or watch it real time on the following dates:November 18thJuanita & JeromeNovember 25thKyarna & JamesAnd to answer a question I get a lot - Nope...I don't get to "preview" the episode. I'll be seeing it for the first time just as you will!!!!!

The DIVA's DISH

2008-11-02T09:29:00.005-05:00

(photo by Jeffrey Weir Photography) Today's DISH has everything to do with shoes. Those of you who know me well also know that I am a bonafide shoe FANATIC...the fact that I own over 200 pair is, well....beside the point :)Most brides I know spend a fair amount of time finding the perfect shoe to wear with their dress (or dresses if you are a 2 gown or more gal). Ditto for the ladies in their

I'm Engaged!

2008-10-17T19:21:00.012-05:00

(Me and the queen of cakes - Sylvia Weinstock!)(some of the goodies inside our "swag bag")(the gorgeous tote from Tulla Belles!)(lovely centerpieces from Flowers Of Winter Park)(Tim Neill, Jay Casiano, Aaron Vieri, Isha Foss & Amy Rubins)(Me and Mr. "Brilliant" himself - Simon T. Bailey)(the cute name cards)oh - don't let the title fool you...that's not the kind of "engagement" I'm talking about

Indianapolis

2008-10-17T15:40:00.003-05:00

is where I'll be on Sunday, October 26th! So, if you are in the greater Indy area - I'm inviting you to come and join me at the best bridal show....Indy's Best Bridal Show 2008!Sponsored by Loretta Smith of Final Touches Make The Difference, LLC., this will be a wonderful afternoon featuring the finest vendors and service providers in the Indianapolis area. No matter where you are on the wedding

The Knot Networking Party

2008-10-07T19:16:00.006-05:00

Back in the spring, I was offered the opportunity to plan the Knot's Networking Party for the Baltimore metropolitan area. I took on the project with a plan in mind, and using the overall theme of "Go Green With The Knot", came up with a pretty cool way to mesh eco-friendly with a great party! On October 1st, almost 200 industry professionals met, mingled, ate, drank and partied at the funky-chic

Whose Wedding Is It Anyway? New Season!

2008-09-26T18:27:00.002-05:00

I just received the "word" from Style Network that the new season of "Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?" will premiere on October 7th. This season, you'll get to see two episodes featuring me and my team in action - Kyarna & James' nuptials will air on October 14th, and Juanita & Jerome's "I Do's" follow on November 18th.Make sure to set your DVR's and Tivo's!!!

James & Azuredee - The Real Pics!

2008-09-24T09:55:00.006-05:00

I just received this wonderful slideshow from Phillip Lloyd Photography out of Tampa Bay, Florida. Phil was great to work with this past weekend and I think he truly captured the essence of James & Azuredee's special day.Take a look and tell me what you think!

I Am A Wedding Planner..I Am An Entrepreneur.

2008-09-22T19:00:00.009-05:00

I am beyond thrilled and honored to have my alma mater, the University of Maryland at Baltimore County, feature my lifestyle and musings on the Alex. Brown Center For Entrepreneurship's website. The Center is but one of the shining elements at this world-class place of higher learning, and as an entrepreneur - I am more than happy to share what I've learned and accumulated over the years with

James and Azuredee

2008-09-21T10:01:00.018-05:00

(The new Mr. & Mrs. James McDonald)(The menu cards by Diamond Minor Designs)(Bright colors and a little "bling" for the bride and groom's place setting) (The wedding party table) (James and his crew...)(Dee and her girls - takin' a stroll) (Special seating cards for the parents) (What an amazing view for a wedding ceremony!) (The weather was absolutely gorgeous!) (Miss Q demonstrating the

SPA Week Is Back!

2008-09-16T12:14:00.003-05:00

I am all for "me" time - with the kind of life I lead, it's so necessary for me to "take a minute" to rejuvenate and relax. This is the same kind of advice I give to all of my brides and grooms, so when I found out that one of my favorite times of year is just around the corner - I had to share it with all of you!Spa Week is a chance for you to take advantage of wonderfully pampering services

Austin, Texas

2008-09-14T18:10:00.017-05:00

(The capital of Texas!) (At the VIP Reception with Barbara Hearne of Barbara's Brides)(Enjoying a glass of sangria with John-John, the "Wedding Butler") (members of AWEC) (Guests came from Houston, Dallas and other parts of Texas!)(Yummy Tea Sandwiches!)(LOVE this centerpiece!)(The fragrant yellow rose of Texas adorned my pillow each night....)(What a delicious way to say "Welcome"!) It was a

Antonia & Mikal

2008-09-14T17:19:00.006-05:00

Many congratulations go out to the new Mr. & Mrs. Mikal Baaqee! Antonia and Mikal were married last Friday (9/5) at the beautiful Strathmore Music Center in Bethesda, Maryland.Here's a great shot by F.A. Formica Photography of the happy twosome right after their lovely ceremony - check out those smiles!!Many thanks to all of the fine vendors who helped bring this event to life:Augie Bove and the

The DISH - Special E Rescue Service

2008-09-13T21:55:00.005-05:00

Today's DISH is a sound, environmentally conscious program that was introduced to me as I've been planning the Knot.com's annual Networking Event here in Baltimore. According to their website, "The Special E is a unique "green" service that rescues leftovers from meetings, conferences, trade shows, banquets, parties, weddings, and special events, then recycles them in ways that help our planet